All your justifications come to nothing because reality doesn't care the reasons.
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/05/opinion/coronavirus-exposure-contact-tracing.html?action=click&module=Opinion&pgtype=Homepage shows the problem with justifications.
How is 2 h of unmasked contact close enough to have a nice talk with an out-of-state visitor social distancing? Why was the out-of-state person talking to anyone F2F without the 14 day isolation period?
How is multiple visits in a week with people from outside your bubble social distancing, especially when you had an out-of-state visitor who was clearly visiting lots of people?
How is coming in contact with anyone while waiting for the results of a test, let alone 17 people, an option for anyone who knows the pandemic is a thing?
What part of stay home in your bubble as someone with the privilege to do so was hard to understand?
Yeah, yeah, rules are inconvenient and it's not really your fault for failing to believe the last five months of personal stories just like this on how failing to social distance lead to increased cases.
Your story is the same as everyone else's "Hey, everybody! It turns out the science is real and I wish I had believed the science instead of rationalizing my behavior as not that risky because I wanted to be mostly normal."