Finally got a 2fer!
Ciao_yall, I feel ya. It took me foreeever to get to genius, and I am totally stumped. What other words (or "words") could possibly be in there?! Good luck!
Langue_doc, thanks! The appointment went fine, and he was able to negotiate cardiac rehab at home since he has already been doing a bunch of walking and has been through cardiac rehab before so understands the type of protocol. He's thinking about getting a stationary bike. I haven't been on a bike in years, so that sounds like a safe one to try! As for the curation, it's certainly subjective, though I guess it would be by definition to some extent. I know that they have introduced some kinds of diverse or diversity panels for other NYT games but am not sure about the bee. Maybe it would be good to have a bunch of people of various ages, backgrounds and cultures, etc. vote on which words to accept or not. Of course it would still not make everyone happy, but at least it wouldn't be one young man (even a very intelligent one, it seems).