To be perfectly honest, your reply also sums up a lot of things that have soured me on this community as a whole. Rather than a "wow, thanks for taking care of this for the past few years, we're happy to step up and keep it going so it's not all on you", the immediate reply is "It doesn't cost that much, why don't you just keep doing it? What are you hiding?"
[/quote]
You sound exactly like me complaining to my wife and kids. I'm glad you're already getting a better response than I do.
And I'm sorry to hear about pre-tenure pressures--they can be a lot, and obviously you need to give yourself the time you need to attend to them.
You deserve great thanks and appreciation for the fora work you've done. I would at least think about taking on a task or two, but someone would have to explain the following sentence to me:
"Slightly more than that is keeping up with backups (in case something happens), occasionally needing to tweak site settings when something breaks, and handling installation/management of the software that runs the board instance on the hosted server."
And by explain, I mean using small words, pictures, and a hand-puppet or two.